Dating Personals
Tuesday, 20 December 2011
How To Get My Ex Girlfriend Back
Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back Today!
Surprisingly, the easy part is actually getting your ex girlfriend to come crawling back to you: It all comes down to pushing her "emotional hot buttons". Triggers that are specific to only women. Following the simple step-by-step blueprint I have laid out for you below, getting her back suddenly becomes the easy part of the puzzle (but not the only part). She will begin to chase and pursue you. For most all guys, the "getting her back" part is the easiest of all the steps.
But...there is another very important "step" none of the other so called "experts" dare talk about: keeping her (and NOT being her man-slave) once you get her back...
You're about to have two of your main problems solved:
1. You're going to get your ex girlfriend back.
2. After you get her back, you're going to "train" her to treat you like a King.
So, believe me, getting your girlfriend back is the easy part... The part that really matters, and I can’t emphasize this enough, is keeping her committed and in LOVE with you after you get her back. That's what you really want, isn't it?
Do any of these sound like your current situation?
• Your ex girlfriend refuses to talk with you no matter what you say or do?
• She just wants to be friends with you?
• She has moved on and is seeing another man?
• Ignores your calls and emails?
• She deleted you from Facebook?
• Maybe she acts like she wants you one minute and completely ignores you the next?
Well, you're in luck because your situation is anything but unique. Couples break up all the time and they get back together. So what do those who end up getting back together have in common? A lot...if you want to find out what those men who end up successfully getting their girlfriends back have in common then check this out:
Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back Today!
If you want a step-by-step system that will tell you what to do and say to get your girlfriend crawling back to YOU, then I urge you to check out Matt Huston's unique approach to reversing your rejection and getting her to come back to you...
Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back Today!
I don't want to scare you but you must realize there is a limited window of opportunity to actually get your ex girlfriend back. If you end up waiting too long you know she will eventually find another man and fall in love with him... I know that's not what you want so DON'T let it happen.
Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back Today!
Statistics prove the longer you wait, the harder it is to get your ex girlfriend back. She'll find another guy to have sex with and that'll be the end of you. This is why you have to take action now and handle your situation fast.
You need to do this and you need to do it before your time runs out. The clock is ticking man, and I'm not just saying that to scare you. I want you to get back what's rightfully yours. She doesn't belong in some other guy's bed. She belongs in yours!
You have the opportunity to jump through the window and prevent it from closing. I'm giving you a step by step system that uses advanced female psychology to take advantage of your ex girlfriend's vulnerabilities and predictable behavior.
Essentially, you'll be giving yourself an "unfair advantage"...
What she did to you was wrong and you know it. You have every right to take advantage of the knowledge I'm presenting you with. You have every right to have her back in your life and in your bed. And this time, it'll be for good. It will be on your terms.
You have two options: change your situation or continue doing what you're doing now (which clearly isn't working).
To your success
Dateblogger
Dating Personals Directory
Thursday, 15 December 2011
How To French Kiss
How to French Kiss
from wikiHow - The How to Manual That You Can EditYou have seen it done often in the movies and probably on the street in darkened corners. The French kiss is a timeless and passionate gesture of romantic affection. Whether you live in Paris, France, or Paris, Texas, you can learn how to kiss like the French do without an embarrassing faux pas!
Steps
- Moisten your lips. Dry lips do not move well together. Just a light brush of your tongue over your lips right before you kiss will be sufficient to moisten them. Don't lick your lips all the time, though, as this can dry them out further. Instead, use lip balm regularly. You never know when someone will go in for the smooch.
- Slowly brush your lips. Slightly just open your lips and in between your lips keep your partner's lower or upper lip, and brush it slowly. This will give very good experience
- Angle your face. If your mouths meet dead-on, your noses will get in the way, and you will not be able to kiss deeply or smoothly. To avoid this, tilt your head slightly to one side. Make sure you do not both tilt your heads to the same side.
- Close your eyes. As you approach for the kiss, look into your partner's eyes, but, once you are close to theirs, close your eyes. It can be a bit of a turnoff to be kissing and going cross-eyed. However, you don't need to always close your eyes; some people enjoy keeping their eyes open and seeing their partner when kissing.
- Start with a gentle and soft closed-mouth kiss. The French kiss is an open-mouth kiss, but do not lunge in with your lips agape like you're going to eat them; instead, open your lips very slowly. If you were learning to speak French, you would probably start with the basics, vocabulary and grammar, before trying to write poetry. Well, the French kiss is like the poetry of kissing, and before you can be good at it, you have to master the closed-mouth kiss. Even after you have added French kissing to your romantic repertoire, it is usually better to start a kiss with closed lips.
- Go Dutch on the decision to French. Kissing should be a shared decision. You need to have permission to French kiss someone, but when your lips are locked with theirs you may not want to stop and ask, "Hey, this is great, but can I put my tongue in your mouth?" Open your lips slowly and just a little during the kiss so that one of your lips is sandwiched between theirs and one of theirs is between yours. As you are locking and re-locking lips, brush your tongue against your partner's lips ever so slightly. This should make it clear that you want to French kiss. If your partner's tongue does not respond in like fashion or if they pull away, you will have to save the French kiss for another time when you are both ready.
- Explore with your tongue. If you and your partner seem to be enjoying the open-mouth kiss, slowly try to open your mouth a little bit more and gently push your tongue a little farther into their mouth. The tongue is very sensitive, and the mere act of touching your partner's tongue with your own will be very pleasant. Do not stick your tongue too far into the mouth, as this can be a big turn-off. Instead, just gently and playfully touch tongues. Start lightly. Usually, if the other person wants more, they will come and get it.
- Go slow. Passionate kisses are good sometimes, but to really enjoy a French kiss, you must take it slow. Do not hurry and instead, take time to explore each other's mouths.
- Breathe. If you’re kissing for an extended period, it’s easy to forget to breathe. Believe it or not, gasping and turning blue is not romantic. Take small breaths through your nose as you kiss. As you and your partner grow comfortable with the kiss, you can try breathing through your mouth a little: sharing breaths as well can be romantic (but not everybody likes it).
- Mix it up. Kisses are like snowflakes: no two are exactly the same. Once you feel comfortable French kissing someone, it is tempting to try to do the same thing every time. Add variety. Sometimes kiss deeper, for example, and other times pay more attention to the lips than the tongue. Hold the kiss longer or shorter and explore the art of kissing.
- Use your hands. While you should keep your hands polite, especially on a first kiss, you don’t necessarily want them just dangling at your sides. As a general rule, start with your hands on your partner's hips and then slowly move them around their back or up to the face and hair. Another turn on for the first kiss is to gently caress their shoulder while you kiss. It shows you are comfortable with him/her. Gently hold your partner's face with your hands on their cheeks and their neck, or wrap your arms around your partner in an embrace.
- Read your partner's body language. Everybody kisses a little differently, and each person enjoys different things in a kiss - there is no "right" way to kiss. What separates good kissers from bad is an ability to read a partner's body language and be responsive to their partner. Of course if your partner pulls away or seems uncomfortable at any time, understand that you have to slow it down. Good kissing requires give-and-take, so read your partner’s body language and pay attention to clues (sighs or moans) that tell you you’re doing something he or she likes. Let your partner kiss you back, and move with him or her as long as you’re comfortable with what he or she is doing. Listen for clues that tell how much your partner is enjoying a particular kissing maneuver. If you hear a sigh or moan, or they begin kissing you back with increased intensity, realize that they are responding with fervor.
- Develop your style. Good French kissing, like good kissing of any kind, requires practice. You will get better as you do it more. In addition, the more practice you have with one person, the more comfortable you will feel kissing them and developing a style that suits both of you.
- Talk about it. A lot of people have difficulty talking about intimacy, but open communication is important to all parts of a relationship. If you really like the way your partner kisses you, let them know. If you don't like something, also let your partner know that, but approach it delicately and compliment them at the same time on something they did that you liked. Even if the kiss goes all wrong, it can still be an intimate affair if you can both laugh about it together!. Make sure when you kiss you are having fun doing what you are doing. And don't kiss just anyone; make sure it is with someone that you really like and care about.
Tips
- Freshen your breath. You never want to have bad breath when you are about to kiss someone, whether the kiss is a French kiss or not. Because your mouth will be open in a French kiss, fresh breath is especially important. Practice good dental hygiene. Always have breath mints or mint-flavored gum if you think there is even so much as a hint of a chance you might kiss. Avoid foods that leave an unpleasant aftertaste or residue, particularly garlic, coffee, onions, milk, and corn.
- Teeth are a sensitive subject. You definitely do not want to bump teeth with each other. It is not only awkward, but can hurt. It might inevitably happen at times, so do not worry when it does. You may want to try rubbing the backs or fronts of the teeth of the other person with your tongue. This can create a ticklish feeling that might enhance your kiss. Not everyone enjoys having someone's tongue rubbing on their teeth, and many do not like to touch teeth with their tongue.
- Not everybody likes to be kissed the same way, so while your former partner might have enjoyed one method of kissing, your new love might not. You need to learn to read signals and adapt to a style that's comfortable for each of you. This works in reverse, too. Just because someone doesn't kiss you like you are used to does not mean they are a bad kisser. As long as you are comfortable with the kiss, try to be open-minded, as you just might like the new style.
- Be an active partner. If someone is French kissing you and you want them to do so, do not just sit there but get into the kiss. Reciprocate their actions, and alternate taking the lead on the movements of your tongues and lips. If you are uncomfortable with any part of the kiss, do not be afraid to pull away or gently close your lips. This will give your partner the hint.
- There are no rules for how long you should hold a kiss. If you feel uncomfortable at any time, break the kiss; otherwise, just enjoy it until one or both of you slowly pull apart, usually together. It is extremely romantic to lightly suck your partner's upper or bottom lip as you part. You might find yourselves returning to kissing, after each of you takes a breath.
Warnings
- To some people a hard tongue is a turn-off. Keep tongue and lips soft and supple. Think of the pressure used to lick a soft service ice cream cone, no probing with a stiff tongue unless the other enjoys it.
- You can still French kiss if one or both of you has braces, but you should be careful to prevent the braces from touching each other. Also avoid touching the braces with your tongue (you might accidentally cut it).
- Excessive saliva can build up during a French kiss, and that can interfere with the romantic moment. Swallow periodically without breaking the kiss. If you have trouble doing that, do not be afraid to pull away for a moment. Smiling when you pull away can reassure your partner that you're just taking a small break, not rejecting their affection.
- Be aware that French kissing may transmit infectious diseases such as herpes and infectious mononucleosis (also known as mono).
- If you ever feel uncomfortable or do not want to move forward with any move your partner is attempting, pull away and let your partner know that you want to stop. Be firm. It's OK to say no.
Article provided by wikiHow, a wiki how-to manual. Please edit this article and find author credits at the original wikiHow article on How to French Kiss.
Learn more tips and techniques like these in my book, Kissing 101. You’ll learn step-by-step methods for becoming a fantastic kisser. It’s completely illustrated, so there’s no way you can go wrong! Avoid rejection by learning the signals that tell you to go or not go for a kiss. Become an expert in body language: interpret how your partner responds to your kiss with my handy guide. Whether you want to learn how to French kiss or what it would be like to kiss with a tongue ring, my complete guide to kissing tips and techniques has the answers! Check it out today at my website: www.Kissing101.net
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How to Snog - Making Out To Become a Super French Kisser
How to Snog - Become a Super-Kisser
by Michelle Penney
by Michelle Penney
What’s the difference between a kiss that
goes flat and a kiss that tickles the toes? Some kisses you can feel tingle up
your spine, while others feel like the mechanical meeting of lips.
Here’s my list of the Top 5 Reasons that some
kisses are super, while others end up duds.
1. Emotional connection.
If you kiss a guy or girl that you kind of
like, then your kiss will be kind of nice. But if you kiss a guy or girl you
REALLY like, then your kiss will be REALLY special. An emotional connection is
crucial for an amazing kiss. When the physical pleasure of a kiss combines with
the emotional pleasure of sharing an intimate moment, fireworks happen.
2. Great comfort level.
One of the great killers of the pleasure of
kissing is nerves. The more nervous you are, the tenser you feel. Tension makes
you stiff and unyielding – the complete opposite of what a great kisser should
be! When you’re anxious about the result of a kiss or self-conscious about
whether you’re doing it right, you won’t be able to enjoy the moment like you
should. Worse, your tension will get communicated to your partner. Relax and
flow in the moment.
3. Ability to forget the world.
The top kisses seem to go on forever. Your
mind is clear of everything but your partner’s breath, responses, murmurs, and
body against yours. But it can be hard to forget the world if you’re in a noisy
environment, being jostled by other people, or are in an uncomfortable
position. For example, despite their popularity as makeout locations, cars are
notoriously uncomfortable places to kiss. Too, if you’re feeling self-conscious
about your kissing technique or wondering if others are watching, you’ll bring
yourself out of the moment and back to earth. Clear your head the next time you
kiss and let nothing else matter.
4. Imagination.
Great kissers don’t just do what they do
best; they adapt to their partner and experiment with different kinds of
kisses. If your kissing repertoire consists of two styles – kiss and French kiss
– then it may be time to explore the possibilities. Vary the pace and pressure
of your kisses. Expand from the mouth and kiss the eyelids, neck, even nibble
the ear. Be inventive.
5. Rhythm.
The best kisses have an ebb and flow. They
start gently, become greedy, then allow a pause for breathing and meeting one
another’s eyes. A kiss is sometimes called a dance of the lips, and it’s
important to remember that kisses, like dances, must have a rhythm. Nothing is
worse than someone who is so intent on kissing you that they don’t allow you
room to breath. Let your kiss find its natural rhythm. Allow it to warm up and
eventually cool down. Always take time to reconnect with your partner through
catching his or her eyes and breathing together.
If you really care about someone, are
completely relaxed, there in the moment, and allow your kissing to find its
natural rhythm and expression, you’ll find that your kisses become much more
intense and enjoyable.
Learn more tips and techniques like these in
my book, Kissing 101. You’ll learn step-by-step methods for becoming a
fantastic kisser. It’s completely illustrated, so there’s no way you can go
wrong! Avoid rejection by learning the signals that tell you to go or not go
for a kiss. Become an expert in body language: interpret how your partner
responds to your kiss with my handy guide. Whether you want to learn how to
French kiss or what it would be like to kiss with a tongue ring, my complete
guide to kissing tips and techniques has the answers! Check it out today at my
website:
Happy kissing!
Michelle Penney
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About the author:
About the author:
Michelle Penney is the author of “Kissing
101: Your Complete Guide To Kissing Tips and Techniques” Her witty
light-hearted style and forthright approach to kissing techniques have helped
tutor singles and couples of all ages with their kissing and intimacy issues
and given them a much needed boost of confidence in kissing mastery.
"Kissing 101" has been teaching men
and women how to give fantastic kisses and spice up their relationship with
their partner since 2004. Its fully-illustrated guide leads you step-by-step
through the most basic kisses to French kisses and more! You can learn more
about how to become the sensual and memorable kisser of your dreams at:
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