How to Snog - Become a Super-Kisser
by Michelle Penney
by Michelle Penney
What’s the difference between a kiss that
goes flat and a kiss that tickles the toes? Some kisses you can feel tingle up
your spine, while others feel like the mechanical meeting of lips.
Here’s my list of the Top 5 Reasons that some
kisses are super, while others end up duds.
1. Emotional connection.
If you kiss a guy or girl that you kind of
like, then your kiss will be kind of nice. But if you kiss a guy or girl you
REALLY like, then your kiss will be REALLY special. An emotional connection is
crucial for an amazing kiss. When the physical pleasure of a kiss combines with
the emotional pleasure of sharing an intimate moment, fireworks happen.
2. Great comfort level.
One of the great killers of the pleasure of
kissing is nerves. The more nervous you are, the tenser you feel. Tension makes
you stiff and unyielding – the complete opposite of what a great kisser should
be! When you’re anxious about the result of a kiss or self-conscious about
whether you’re doing it right, you won’t be able to enjoy the moment like you
should. Worse, your tension will get communicated to your partner. Relax and
flow in the moment.
3. Ability to forget the world.
The top kisses seem to go on forever. Your
mind is clear of everything but your partner’s breath, responses, murmurs, and
body against yours. But it can be hard to forget the world if you’re in a noisy
environment, being jostled by other people, or are in an uncomfortable
position. For example, despite their popularity as makeout locations, cars are
notoriously uncomfortable places to kiss. Too, if you’re feeling self-conscious
about your kissing technique or wondering if others are watching, you’ll bring
yourself out of the moment and back to earth. Clear your head the next time you
kiss and let nothing else matter.
4. Imagination.
Great kissers don’t just do what they do
best; they adapt to their partner and experiment with different kinds of
kisses. If your kissing repertoire consists of two styles – kiss and French kiss
– then it may be time to explore the possibilities. Vary the pace and pressure
of your kisses. Expand from the mouth and kiss the eyelids, neck, even nibble
the ear. Be inventive.
5. Rhythm.
The best kisses have an ebb and flow. They
start gently, become greedy, then allow a pause for breathing and meeting one
another’s eyes. A kiss is sometimes called a dance of the lips, and it’s
important to remember that kisses, like dances, must have a rhythm. Nothing is
worse than someone who is so intent on kissing you that they don’t allow you
room to breath. Let your kiss find its natural rhythm. Allow it to warm up and
eventually cool down. Always take time to reconnect with your partner through
catching his or her eyes and breathing together.
If you really care about someone, are
completely relaxed, there in the moment, and allow your kissing to find its
natural rhythm and expression, you’ll find that your kisses become much more
intense and enjoyable.
Learn more tips and techniques like these in
my book, Kissing 101. You’ll learn step-by-step methods for becoming a
fantastic kisser. It’s completely illustrated, so there’s no way you can go
wrong! Avoid rejection by learning the signals that tell you to go or not go
for a kiss. Become an expert in body language: interpret how your partner
responds to your kiss with my handy guide. Whether you want to learn how to
French kiss or what it would be like to kiss with a tongue ring, my complete
guide to kissing tips and techniques has the answers! Check it out today at my
website:
Happy kissing!
Michelle Penney
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About the author:
About the author:
Michelle Penney is the author of “Kissing
101: Your Complete Guide To Kissing Tips and Techniques” Her witty
light-hearted style and forthright approach to kissing techniques have helped
tutor singles and couples of all ages with their kissing and intimacy issues
and given them a much needed boost of confidence in kissing mastery.
"Kissing 101" has been teaching men
and women how to give fantastic kisses and spice up their relationship with
their partner since 2004. Its fully-illustrated guide leads you step-by-step
through the most basic kisses to French kisses and more! You can learn more
about how to become the sensual and memorable kisser of your dreams at:
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